Disrespecting Women

#Disgusting

I don't know why is it so difficult to differentiate between an 'object' and a female?! I have heard boys refer to woman as 'saman', 'maal', 'cheez', 'item', and when confronted about the same the justification I received is even more astonishing, "itna toh chalta hai yaar...maal hii toh bola hai....rape toh nahi kiya." If this continues, I won't be surprised if in the coming times even rape will attain a 'chalta-hai-yaar' status.
Yes they like being appreciated. Yes they like receiving compliments. Call them beautiful. Call them intelligent. But no! maal, cheez, item, samaan, these are not compliments. Save these terms for actual 'objects'....................

It is totally uncool and disrespectful. Stop driving fun from it. Even if you are talking amongst your guy-gang. Do you ever say sumthing like, "yaar aaj meri behen mast saman lag rhi hai." or have u even dare tried to say to ur friend, " bhai, aaj teri behen kamaal ka maal lag rahi hai."?

Your sister is a girl. Your friend's sister is a girl. And the rest of the girls are NOT objects. They are girls too...........Same goes for the girls too. Stop being flattered on receiving such comments. Being called an item or maal should not make you smile sheepishly. It should enrage you, disgust you..............

There are other more flattering adjectives you can use for a woman than maal/samaan/totta. Appreciate us as humans and you might stand a chance of receiving a decent 'Thank you' in return. Appreciate me as an object and I'll show you, that's what I'm not.....

PS- I have noticed people saying me an introvert, which by the way I'm very am because you have got this mindset. I don't feel like talking to you guys who have this mindset so I keep myself isolated from your gang.

#Vaahiyad!